Long Distanced
Randie has seen these things first hand.
It is hard to maintain long distance love… But, it is a sure fire way to determine whether you are really into someone or not… whether or not you miss them.
Randie has seen these things first hand.
It is hard to maintain long distance love… But, it is a sure fire way to determine whether you are really into someone or not… whether or not you miss them.
Don’t I know it…and I’ll just leave it at that.
I’m ALL done with long-distance love…
patience is prudent. After all, you want to be in for the long-haul.
I’m lucky I come home to mine everynight!
Yat… I guess you have had a real experience there.
Rich… and you, too!
Mary… If that person miles away is worth the struggle and aloneness… you will endure.
When there is a span of time and space between you and your loved one, it tests the relationship. If you wind up feeling “meh” about things, then you know it is time to move on. My first relationship had the blessing of a month gap when boyfriend X went off to teach camp. “Meh” occurred and it was over. If gap hadn’t occurred, who knows how long it might’ve dragged on.
Ep… you are blessed. I hope you know that. I think you do.
These days, long distance love is when I’m at work and my wife is at home 20 miles away. *sigh* How I DO miss her. 🙂
OT ‘n’ Randie: two kites, no string.
Pete… You, too, are blessed. My sister’s hubby is on the East Coast, a nation away, and will soon be off to the Middle East for a year. This makes me sad.
EofO… no, indeed. Blowing around… avoiding trees and power lines.
Hey, at least with cell phone, it costs no more to call across country as it does to call across town. Not like the old days when you paid by the mile for long distance calls.
My long-distance relationship was with someone from Calgary. Yes, western Canada. And I’m in Ohio. Couple that with the fact that our personalities were so markedly different. There’s no way in hell it could have succeeded. We lasted 9 months, and spent time together in person twice. Oh well, at least it was fun while it lasted.
Long distance, short distance, long term, short term……. me and relationships don’t work. I’ve tried them all and basically my wonderful caustic personality makes sure that shallow or deep, all my romantic outings end in tears. Not mine, though…… call me hard hearted.
qka … true… I remember land line madness… costed more and the cord wouldn’t stretch out from the kitchen.
uwg… That musta been different. As an experienced military brat… you sorta learned not to get too attached to people… because they inevitably would move in a couple weeks or months. When I was a kid, I had a crush on my next door neighbor and before you knew it, he was on the East Coast. Sigh. sure we wrote now and again… but it fizzled. Mind you, I was in the third grade. Still.
Lady J… hmmm… maybe it’s the ax you’re carrying over your shoulder that puts people on edge. (Kidding)… I have this thing I do… it’s probably viewed as Polyanna-ish… but I genuinely feel that there is someone for us all. Maybe even more than one. Life is a funny thing… you can’t give up on things. I decided to give up at one point on relationships, too…. at least for a while… you’ll never guess what happened!